i am upset, i havent actually been to the doc yet, i have a 2 yr old i have to watch and i dont really feel like draggin him to an ob, and he is not very cooperative anyhow, and no babysitter.  so here is the deal, i am 28, female, i have had sex with only 3 different people my entire life, one was only one time, there was another he was my husband for 3 yrs, and the current is my husband of almost 7 yrs, i havent seen anything questionable except on my current husband, he has always had a cold sore on his lip about 1 or 2 times a yr, i tried to steer clear of it while he had it.  anyways for the last week, i have had genital blisters that first flared up around my anus and have crept a few blisters up around my vagina, i dont actually have any on my vagina yet, hopefully wont.  i dont completely understand how i got it, but i am hoping that is the hsv 1 instead of 2 since i really do believe i got it from him, i was thinking about ordering an online test but dont know yet, he knows i have it now and says he is here for me no matter what so i just thought about keeping it descreet, has anyone else every got it this way, we are pretty exploritory when it comes to our sex life if you know what i mean.