PLEASE HELP ME i dont know if i can do this
I am a 19 year old female who is in a monogamous relationship and have been for over a year. over the summer I started experiencing chronic UTIs and yeast infection like symptoms and since I've dealt with the UTI problem forever I got put on a small does antibiotic for that. Now, four days ago, I was having 5 to 6 hard bowel movements a day. my rectum was becoming increasingly sore and then my perineum just split open. I was told to use neosporin and when i went to bed and woke up there were two symmetical sores on my outer labia. the next morning there were 2 more. now there are nine and I cant stand to do anything. I can pee but it hurts and I've been to two doctors and they can't help me other can give me pain killers and lidocaine. If this is herpes, I dont know how it would just be happening like this now if the first outbreak is the worst and is 2-20 days after exposure. My biggest questions are 1. IS IT HERPES and 2. HOW MANY DAYS BEFORE ALL THE SORES ARE PRESENT AND CAN BEGIN HEALING? its just been days of multiplying and the first ones look the same and are still as painful as when they first formed.
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For me it had seemed like
For me it had seemed like I'd just have to live with constant and long lasting herpes outbreaks, but I lucked upon a website selling hsv-zero and spend the 40 or so bucks on a small bottle of it. It's got calendula and a few other ingredients used in Germany to treat herpes, in a base of dmso, which both treats the herpes virus and dries out the sores. Anyway, for me it can prevent the outbreaks, and if I use it too late it usually only takes about 3 or 4 days until I'm blister free. So now the disease is actually manageable.
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Yeah... I didn't think that
Yeah... I didn't think that you would post my reply to this poor girl's situation... it was too honest, blatant, and helpful... Just because you read and choose to play "Edit God" does not mean that someone else's advice or experience might not assist other's... Shame on YOU!!!
This is a [b]public[/b] forum
This is a [b]public[/b] forum and I just spent a half hour trying to [b]assist [/b]someone and yet, this site [b]may or may not [/b]publish what [b]valuable information[/b] I have offered her, once it is "queued"??? WTF!!!??? THIS IS WHAT IS WRONG WITH AMERICA TODAY... WHATEVER HAPPENED TO FREE SPEECH??? Maybe I [b]don't care[/b] what you think of what I offered [b]HER[/b]...
Sorry to hear about the
Sorry to hear about the possible HSV-2... I contracted it last August from someone who swore he didn't have it, and SAYS that he's been tested and STILL claims he doesn't have it... (even after he was recently rushed to a hospital with Encephalitis which can be related to the HSV) *eye roll* (This girl knows where she's been!)
Outbreaks! People!!! The first is the worst???!!! I don't think I've ever stopped having "my first" then... 9 (NINE) months of this is a "first outbreak"??? Pleeeeeeeease!!! I can't sleep, can't pee, uncomfortable in clothing, can't- don't want to- and choose not to live in a stupor of painkillers, basically miserable 98% of the time... I've tried the acyclavir... I've tried the high dollar Abreva... I've tried Lysine... I've changed my diet... And although I hate to be the "party crasher" by giving you the not so pretty truth about it... I also want to give you some GOOD news... After looking at the main ingredients in many of the female vaginal itch/burn creams, realized that Benzocaine was the main ingredient... But most in low doses... I work in the dental field and got this "wonderful" (and desperate!) idea of trying the topical that we use prior to giving an injection, as it is 20%... Then I got this great idea about mixing it with a non perfumed lotion on my own so that it wouldn't be so yucky, and sticky "down there"... That worked pretty good for about three days... and then a shipment came into the office of Colgate, Orabase... Haha!!! Someone else came up with my idea first... only they've marketed it as an oral pain reliever... [b]It's TERRRIFIC[/b]... And although this has abruptly (to put it mildly) interfered with my life... I am now using it nightly just before bed... I am able to sleep during the night, which allows the dealing with it during the day much easier... I go day by day... But I've done this for abooooout the last full month, and it has really made a difference... The hard part now, is dealing with it emotionally... and coming to terms that I probably will never be with another man intimately again... But then, that's a whole other "facet" to dealing with HSV... All the best to you and the rest out there that fight this battle daily... sometimes hourly...
Your case sounds very similar
Your case sounds very similar to mine. It began with one sore on my outer labia, and then continued to multiply. I was in a relationship at the time, and my boyfriend had never shown any signs of herpes. I went to the gynocologist and tested positive for HSV-2. I told my boyfriend, and he accused me of cheating on him, which I never did. He then went to the gynocologist for blood work and also tested positive for HSV-2. I'm sorry to hear that your pain is so intense, and if you are still experiencing pain, one thing I did was take a very hot bath, and run the water over the painful area. It soothed my pain for up to 2 hours, which isn't long. But it helped me get through not only the physical pain, but helped relax me through the emotional pain.
Things do get better, and six months later I am now coping with everything. My boyfriend cheated on me two weeks ago, without any care in the world of spreading his infection to others and I'm doing my best to warn all that I know of what he has and what he's doing. I hope things improve for you.
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